Centerline
At Soul Force Strategies, we believe the most powerful life is one lived in alignment—with your values, your purpose, and your deeper self. Centerline is where strategic insight meets soulful reflection. Here, you'll find thoughtful articles, personal reflections, and practical tools to help you lead with clarity, live with intention, and grow from the inside out. Whether you’re navigating change, refining your identity, or reaching for your next level, Centerline is your space to recalibrate, realign, and rise.
What Fear Does to a Room
Hurricane Frances did a 270-degree turn and came back. What I watched in the days surrounding that evacuation — from inside my own considerable fear — was a study in what pressure does to people. The storm didn't determine how people responded. Their assumptions did.
“You Are Rich”
I argued with her for thirty minutes. I had evidence. I had debt and no home ownership and a list of financial constraints that felt very real to me. She listened to all of it. And then she looked at me with calm, matter-of-fact certainty — the way you'd state the weather — and said: "Yes, but you are rich."
Worth the Effort
Someone said it to me once, out loud, with no apparent awareness of how it landed. She learned Dave was military, and her response was immediate: "Oh, you're military. You'll be leaving, so..." The sentence didn't need to be finished. The ellipsis did the work.
"We're Only Here for a Little While, So Let's Be Friends Fast"
My daughter explained how she'd made a best friend within a week of arriving on base. She looked at me like the answer was obvious: "We're only here for a little while, so let's be friends fast." She went on to attend four high schools in four years. She never stopped knowing that.
What Held Me
I had spent thirty years being the foundation — holding everyone else steady so the family could function. I was good at it. I had mistaken being good at it for being sustained by it. When the role disappeared, I discovered the difference.
What Holds
What makes human connection last when circumstances change? After 20 military moves, I've been collecting data on that question. What I kept noticing was that the difference rarely came down to circumstance. The people who held things together were operating from a different assumption.
